As life is a daring adventure or nothing at all (thank you, Helen Keller), have you felt into where you are traveling next in your life’s journey?
Coming around the bend into a new season after last week’s solstice, as well as into a new calendar year, it’s a good time to reflect on where you’ve been and where you’re headed. Reflecting on your own spiritual path, how well would you like to “travel” into the next trip around the sun and during the next thirteen moons?
This edition of Soul Notes is devoted to traveling light.
Carry on baggage, or checked baggage?
Maybe it’s a good thing that airlines make you pay for extra baggage. “Whaaat?,” you exclaim. Well…We’re paying an energetic price anyway for extra baggage: in our travels, in our relationships, in our lives. Adding $25 or $50 or whatever it is the airline charges only makes it all that more apparent.
When airlines first invoked those extra charges several years ago, I did feel disgruntled and rather taken aback by the new policy. How affronting that they were going to charge us for something that had always been included within the price of our airfare? I’m beginning to appreciate, however, that the extra-bags policy has brought to my attention the benefits of packing light.
I now value the ‘selection process’ inherent in choosing what I need or desire most to bring on a trip, and deciding what items really are better left behind. I read somewhere (or did I imagine this?) that just as with portion control on your dinner plate, it’s helpful to lay out what you think you may wish to pack, and then reduce it by half.
Doing so requires prioritization. It’s an exercise in discernment. It’s living life consciously. What really matters to you?
Traveling light means paring down
Heading into the new year, how about we take a little inventory of our lives? Maybe it’s time, by design, to travel light. Release what is weighing you down. Let go of what is holding you back. Finally recognize and cast off that which has been making things take longer and unnecessarily draining on you rather than sustaining?
I’ve decided that there’s a reason luggage is called that – it’s because you lug it around with you. When traveling abroad, have you ever found yourself dragging a suitcase all around — on and off trains, up and down stairways, and from hotel to hotel? Unless you have your own private valet, this quickly becomes a direct and obvious reminder of the value of traveling light. Keep this vision in your mind’s eye when packing for your next trip!
Additionally, while on your next trip — business, vacation, either or both – be aware of what, if anything, you actually wish you had in fact brought with you. Or, maybe some things for you have shifted in their priority or meaningfulness? Is it time to reprioritize? If so, make the appropriate notations and adjustments for next time.
Time for an inspection and perhaps a refresh
Now is a wonderful time, in another sense, to “check” your bags. Give them a good once-over. Any rips, tears, or frays? Any broken zippers? Are the wheels wobbly and about to fall off? Maybe the bags are still functional, yet have long lost their luster?
Is your passport up to date? Better to take a look and determine that now rather than later. Some countries require a passport to be at least six months away from its expiration date, when you are visiting. Again, what may be an annoying policy, I have come to realize, actually serves a useful purpose for us as well. It helps us to take our travels seriously. There’s a discipline to it; a consciousness to it.
Don’t think this is all about stodgy planning. I’m all for spontaneity, too. I’d say having the passport up to date ahead of time actually allows for precisely that! You’re ready to go at a moment’s notice (especially if you’ve gotten in the habit of bringing only what fits in a small carrry-on bag…see how this works?)
Review and Replenish
Every 90 days or so (you can use the solstices and equinoxes as an easy guide from the natural world) examine — not only your luggage and passport, but your life’s dreams and ambitions. Not unlike the natural world, your life is dynamic and fluid. Quarterly review and replenishment is about right – any more often than that, and you may be disallowing your aspirations their full due. Your life is worth it – no short-changing or robbing your priorities the opportunity to fully settle in and calibrate. Throughout the year, consider: How do you feel? How do you wish to feel? Lighter?
For your consideration:
What are you carrying into 2017? Lay it all out in front of you. Now, consider cutting it by 50%. Be selective. You get to choose!
For another practical example, and one I did myself after Solstice:
Clear out your refrigerator. Okay, before you groan about this one, first put on some of your favorite music and spray something pleasingly fragrant in the air. Next, dedicate no more than 55 minutes at a time to:
Taking one shelf a day for the next (however many shelves are in your fridge) days to clean it out. Wipe down the dividers. Remove the cruddy crusties from jar lids. Check for items well past their expiration dates. Put in a fresh box of baking soda. Toss out old condiments that you barely ever use (how many different types of mustard do you really need?) What about that small jar of maraschino cherries hiding behind that other small jar of pickled relish – can you even remember why you bought either of those – was it for a party you hosted back in 2011?
When you’re done at the end of the week, cherish a clean fridge, and consider how it’s a metaphor for entering the new year lighter, freer, and more refreshed. And, if the metaphor doesn’t work, at least you can now find the almond butter!
Okay, your turn:
What are you ready to leave behind from this year? What are you excited about and energized about bringing with you into the next one?
I invite you to share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences in the Comments section, below. Soul-to-soul!